What if tomorrow morning you woke up to the news that you closed the deal and got THAT contract?
What if the meeting on your calendar for tomorrow afternoon was to announce your nomination to become an equity partner at your law firm or consulting practice?
What if you get a letter requesting your presence at the reading of the last will and testament of a beloved family member; you were bequeathed a sizeable inheritance.
What if, on a lark, you actually played the lottery and during the 11pm news you hear your numbers…you freaking won!
From X to Y
Whether by talent, discipline, and hard work; generosity; or pure damn luck, you went to bed having X. And now you have Y.
This is a moment you’ve thought of often. You probably even have a list of things you’d do and buy if the windfall you’ve been preparing for and/or praying for happens.
But now, what was once considered a “one-day, maybe” goal or fantasy is a full-on reality.
You now have more money than you’ve ever had. You are suddenly rich – oh, by about six- or seven-figures.
Pretty damn cool, eh?!
Your new financial reality changes EVERYTHING!
It changes what you can do; it changes what you no longer have to do; it changes many elements of your lifestyle; and more.
It sounds absolutely wonderful, doesn’t it?! You welcome this kind of change with arms wide open.
Eventually though, the excitement settles and you soon find yourself wrestling with a very logical question: “What the hell do I (really) do with all this money?”
Last week, I had the awesome pleasure and privilege to speak with a group asking just such a question.
I thought I’d share a few of the tips I presented during last week’s workshop. Why? Because you very well could find yourself in a similar position as them, albeit for very different reasons.
And because windfalls, no matter the size, usually find you a bit unprepared for them.
So, let’s start there…
1. Windfalls require adjustments
An aspect of becoming suddenly rich that is often overlooked is this: When you get more, you have to increase your capacity to handle more.
With more money, comes more responsibility. More responsibility typically involves different decisions and choices than what you’re accustomed to making.
When you read this, you might find yourself saying, “duh, Jacquette!”
Yet, most suddenly rich people expect everything (and maybe everyone) around them to change. But they don’t realize they need to change too!!
2. Windfalls don’t mask blind spots (they exacerbate them!)
Some people believe more money alone will change how they experience money. But here’s the real deal: How you handle a $1 will be the same way you will handle $1million. Unless you invest the time to discover your blind spots and adjust accordingly.
Don’t believe me…read this and watch this.
3. Windfalls require a plan of action
To go beyond being suddenly rich to becoming gradually wealthy (or wealthier), your windfall needs direction…you and it need a plan of action.
Think of your plan as a financial playbook for how the different spheres of your “financial wheel” (earn, save, invest, spend) work independently and how they “talk” to each other.
A well documented plan should help you manage your new financial reality, with specific strategies, policies and processes. A well executed plan is best achieved with a team of independent experts – each accountable for specific outcomes. A well followed plan has built-in oversight.
4. Windfalls demand you proactively think about “what could possibly go wrong?”
Just as windfalls exacerbate blind spots; they also highlight human nature. That means you need to be brutally honest about what could possibly go wrong. And, that ranges from acknowledging the probability of losing all of what you’ve gained due to poor choices, poor management or poor counsel to acknowledging that family and friends may have unrealistic expectations about what YOU should do with your money. Having a “what could possibly go wrong game-plan?” will help you mitigate your risks (financial and otherwise).
From suddenly rich to gradually wealthy (or wealthier)
When I spoke with my group of suddenly rich folks last week, I talked about mindset, behavior, and choices (what a surprise, right?!). I talked about how their windfall was a financial springboard, and how it is an invitation to be a better steward of their resources.
Luck of the lottery-winner type had very little to do with why we were in a room together; they were there due to their talent, hard work, dedication, focus and sacrifice. A smorgasbord of ingredients that can likely lead to your very own suddenly rich moment.
I am not a biblical scholar, but when I think of how best I can help suddenly rich people navigate and negotiate this new terrain – in terms of dollars and the emotions that go with – I recall the passage Matthew 7:13-14:
The Narrow and Wide Gates
13 “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. NIV
Should you become suddenly rich, the above tips will help you go through the narrow gate. (By the way, if Christianity or religion, in general, isn’t your thing, then just think of the wide gate as “the easy, get by with little effort, non-strategic way” and the narrow gate as “the hard, put in the effort, strategic way”.)
It is the narrow gate that will minimize all that could possibly go wrong. From losing all of your windfall and ending up broke to having fractured personal relationships due to misplaced expectations.
It is the narrow gate that leads to gradual wealth.
p.s. is having a business of your own (full-time or on the side) part of your becoming “suddenly rich” strategy? If so, check out Jullien Gordon’s program – B.P.A.I.D. (You may recall he was my guest expert teacher last month.)
At first, I thought I was too advanced in my business for the program because I’ve been going hard for many years now, but Jullien taught me how to hustle smarter, not harder. I participated in B.P.A.I.D. just as I am approaching the finish line of an 18-month business re-engineering & re-branding exercise and process. I highly recommend this program to anyone seeking more financial freedom because Jullien has a wealth of information. And for those of you who are still working full-time jobs, by the end of the program you will have a legitimate business plan that you can begin as a side hustle right away. If you want to create your D.R.E.A.M. (Desired Relationships Employment And Money) life as Jullien calls it, check out www.bpaid.me. He is a friend, so let him know I sent you.
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Good article…it was a lot of commonsense, but valuable commonsense and something that often goes overlooked..thank you.
Great post! 🙂 Hope many of your readers will learn a lot of things and will be able to have a comfortable retirement. Continue posting stuffs like this! 🙂